Chicken and Egg

Was 1% convinced of getting a Vios (lol) Probably encouraged when my bitching buddy Tracy mentioned that girls would want to be pampered and be driven home after a long day at work. Yeah, I would love to pamper my girl too (yeah, I know it's gross)

That aside, I realized that I didn't have to think about this aspect at all. Although I am this old, my ex had never expected me to drive them around because I was just a student, and pampering meant other things. Anyway, now that I have the means to get a cheap car, it may be considered too

I came to the conclusion that I probably only want to pamper the special one, and with that, perhaps I should get a car after I've found her. Ok, here comes the Chicken and Egg argument: what if I need to start pampering a 'would-be special one' with a car, which means that without a vehicle, I would be facing limited success. Hmm...

Okok, I'm lacking sleep this week and have been thinking of silly stuff. Please don't judge me and think that I'm such a weirdo. Heh

But on relationship, Sharon was saying that my expectation was probably too high. Yeah, I'd agree. And for the longest time after my break-up, I had believed ジョアン was the perfect one. I guess she's still the best I could find but well, things just didn't work out. Sharon also mentioned 'Once bitten, twice shy' - haiz... I guess it's her pet phrase for the moment with what she's seeing around her. Nah, the phrase isn't for me.

Was talking to Lisheng and Weilin today too. After receiving my congratulation on his passing of the TP practical, the conversation came to buying a car or ...

The following are Lisheng's suggestions:

To buy a car with the girlfriend ... (A big NO for me, I don't need the complication during break-ups)

To find a girl who will lend me the car ... (I still have to remind myself that I can't pamper myself so much so that I can't break-up because I need her car lol)

Lisheng's observation: You are thinking of an Exit Strategy!!!

Hahaha, no and yes. I guess if I have a girl in mind, I wouldn't think about any Exit Strategies. But through my observation in the relationships around me, it appears that Singaporean couples tend to get 'very sticky' and will tend to 'endure a relationship' rather than to break-up and move-on. This kind of scares me. It's not about having low sense of commitment, but well, I thought :for couples who are not yet married, it is more painful to drag when it can never work out

Having said that, I'd probably be that kind of 'sticky couple' (no matter how I appeared aloof as to what Shu was saying the other day) when I've found the special person

Sorry for the gross blog entry; if you've read until this line, then I guess you are really a .............. lol